How many times have you been confronted with a decision that left you wondering, “What on earth am I supposed to do in this situation?” How do you know God’s will for the choices you face? Or better yet, does God even have a preference for your life in every situation you face? I think Adam & Eve probably asked those same questions, especially after they were evicted from the Garden of Eden. And if the truth be known, we’ve come up with all kinds of methods and theories about what God wants, from drawing straws to throwing chicken bones. But the Bible is the only reliable source that tells us how we can discover God’s will for our lives. Paul put it this way: “Therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, I urge you to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God; this is your spiritual worship. Do not be conformed to this age, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind so that you may discern what is the good, pleasing and perfect will of God. For by the grace given to me, I tell everyone among you not to think of himself more highly than he should think. Instead think sensibly as God has distribted a measure of faith to each one." (Rom. 12:1-3 HCSB) Paul is saying that since God’s wisdom and knowledge is all encompassing and far greater than the human mind can comprehend. And since all things exist by and thru Him completely according to His will and purposes… when surrender our desires to what He wants to accomplish in and thru us, we will be able to know God’s good, pleasing and perfect will. In His wisdom, God created us to live in relationship as His children – to be joined together in the Holy Spirit, working together by the power of the Holy Spirit, proclaiming together the message of His grace and hope wherever we may be. That can only happen when we humbly submit to one another in God’s will, not thinking more highly of ourselves than we should think, or putting our goals above others, but in faith work together with other believers to further the ministry and message of Christ.
I realize that some of you may be thinking… “Okay dude, that sounds all religious. And it might work for a pastor but what about somebody who doesn’t have a vocational position of ministry? How can we make sensible decisions that line up with God’s will?”
Well dude or dudette... whatever the case may be, it all works much the same way... I think the first thing we have to do is what the Bible tells us about setting our priorities. Jesus said that when we “seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness”, then all the other things in life will line up. In other words, when God comes first in our lives, He will take care of all the things the world says we have to make happen on our own. I believe that includes not only God’s provision but His purpose. And as long as our desires are first, foremost and always to glorify the Lord and magnify His grace and love, He will keep us on the right track. What does that look like in a practical sense? First of all, when you’re faced with a decision, search the Scriptures to see if there is clear guidance for which way you should go. If the choice is against the instructions of God’s Word, that’s an easy choice – say “No.” If it’s permissible, in other words, if it’s something that doesn’t go against the guidance of the Bible, spend time in prayer, asking God to give you guidance. One way I do that is to ask God to give me a heart to desire the choice that leads to His will for me. I then ask Him to confirm my desire by “closing doors I’m not supposed to walk thru and opening doors I’m supposed to enter.” When I surrender my wants to His leading, believe it or not, He opens and shuts the doors. Another thing I do is to consult wise men and women of God – those who are spiritually mature in their faith. I think it’s important to ask them to pray with you and give you any advice they discover from God’s Word or from the prompting of the Holy Spirit. As Solomon said in Proverbs 12:15, “A fool’s way is right in his own eyes, but whoever listens to counsel is wise.” He also wrote in Proverbs 15:22, “Plans fail when there is no counsel, but with many advisers they succeed.” I believe as I once heard Henry Blackaby say, “The Lord speaks to us at least three ways today: 1) Thru the Scriptures, 2) Thru other believers, or 3) Thru the still small voice of the Holy Spirit.” We should remain open to all three, while understanding that none of them will contradict God’s written Word – the Bible.
When making a decision I also believe we should also ask: 1) What choice will most glorify the Lord? 2) What choice will enable my life to most glorify the Lord? And 3) What choice will help me to grow more spiritually as I serve the Lord? The answer to those questions is most likely the direction God wants you to take. If you have a hard time answering any of those questions, keep praying; keep submitting; and keep surrendering your desires to God’s will for your life. He will lead you when the timing is right by opening the door, confirming the direction by His Word – written and spoken, and by giving you peace. Paul wrote in Philippians 4:6-7, “Don't worry about anything, but in everything, through prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses every thought, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”
Sometimes it’s tough to discern God’s will. That’s often because we prefer to tell God what we want to do or what we want Him to do, rather than submit to what He desires for our life. We do that especially when it comes to things such as whether or not to purchase a house or a car, whether to change careers, where we should work, whether or not we should marry, or what church we should attend. Those are things we usually pray about after we’ve already made a decision and we’re asking God to bless our choice. Often times when we do that God will remain silent. It’s almost as if He’s saying, “Hey bud, you’re on your own. I wasn’t part of this decision.” I’m not saying that choices we make like that will always be wrong, but I do think it’s far better to consult with God before we make a decision, not just after the fact. Keep in mind, however, that the decision is ours to make. God won’t make it for us. The only choice He doesn’t want us to make is one that is contrary to His Word or His Will. But I believe that when we truly surrender to His Word, and desire to do all things for His glory, He will make His will the desire of our heart. When we put God’s will above our own desires, the desires of our heart will become consistent with His will. When that happens, all you need to do is follow your heart… Pretty cool, huh?




