Every now and then you meet someone that has a significant impact on your life. They’re more than just a friend. You connect with them on a much deeper level than you do with most other people. They’re the kind of person that you always trust, never doubt, and you know that they will be there through thick and thin. I’m talking about that special someone who has the unique ability to shape the rest of your life. I count myself to be blessed to have known such a man – Howard Carico. Howard was probably my most trusted confidant. A true warrior – both in the literal as well as in the spiritual sense. A retired Marine Gunnery Sergeant, Howard met the challenge of spiritual warfare with as much determination and tenacity as he met the enemies he faced in Vietnam and Korea. Underneath his “hard” exterior, Howard had a tender heart. God gave him a burden for the lost and hurting, and it showed in the way he lived his life. He was always reaching out to others and sharing the love of Jesus with everyone with whom he met. I loved his expression about the church: “It’s a hospital for the hurting, not a country club for the comfortable”. And that was truly the way he viewed his church. Howard didn’t have a “consumer” mentality when it came to church life. He was a giver – a man who believed that Christians should be about ministering, not just being ministered to. And Howard ministered to many – including me. My life is much richer. My walk with the Lord is much deeper. And my love for the lost is much more passionate because of his influence. I will miss my buddy greatly, however, I know we will meet again “in the sweet by and by”. Rest in peace my brother!
