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Tuesday, September 27, 2011

Time for a Comeback

For the second time this year, one of our local high school football teams staged a terrific comeback. The first was when Enka High School staged a 4th quarter rally to overcome a 3 touchdown deficit and defeat Pisgah High School 47-43. Then this past Friday, Asheville High School overcame a 29-0 first half deficit to beat Reynolds High School 35-29.
While I am truly a fan of football, these two games show us much more than the power of teamwork. They’re a good reminder that it’s never too late for a comeback as long as you don’t quit.
There will be numerous times in your life when you feel as though you’re beaten and the enemy is running up the score. People will question your motives. They’ll want to know why you do what you do. And these attacks will grow as your success grows. They’ll attack your leadership style. Don’t get me wrong, godly leadership is not optional, however, every leader has a different style. And some will attack your style because you’re not like them. Others will attack your methods. Listen, people’s opinions of you are not more important than the leadership role God has called you to fulfill. The message must remain the same, but the methods we use have to be more than a carbon copy of what someone did successfully 50 years ago, especially when those methods are no longer successful.
So when you see these attacks coming from all sides, and you feel like you’re beaten down and defeated, don’t quit. It’s time to stage a comeback.
Consider the Apostle Paul. The first half of his life was spent trying to destroy the Church. He not only encouraged but also led zealous Jews to arrest, beat, and even kill those who claimed to be Christians. He didn’t have what might be described as a stellar spiritual life. But he had a second half comeback. He had a divine encounter with Christ, was forgiven, restored and called to be one of the greatest leaders of the first century Church.
Consider the biblical Job. He was a man of great moral integrity and avoided even the appearance of evil. His life was wonderfully blessed and God prospered him abundantly. But then, because of his fear, God allowed Satan to torment him unmercifully. All of his lifestock was stolen or destroyed. His children and his children were killed. He got boils all over his face and body. His wife tried to get him to “Curse God and die.” But Job, even though he must have felt that he was defeated at times, refused to blame God. Then his closest friends turned against him, blaming him for sin that must have caused this awful demise. Still, Job remained faithful. He didn’t quit. And in the end, he staged a comeback. He prayed for his accusers. He continued to worship God. “And the Lord restored Job’s losses when he prayed for his friends. Indeed the Lord gave Job twice as much as he had before.” Job 42:10
You may be behind in the game right now. Maybe you’re struggling in your business, your relationships, your marriage or your relationship with God. My encouragement to you is, “Don’t quit!” It’s time for a comeback. And if you do like Paul and Job and stay in the game, you will come back.

Thursday, September 22, 2011

6 Ways to Handle Criticism


If you’re a leader, criticism will be a part of your life. It’s a fact, so expect it to happen. Some of it will be good. Some of it will not be so good. Regardless, it’s best to be prepared and know how you’re going to handle criticism. I try to do the following when I encounter criticism.

1.    If the criticism is coming from someone that is hypercritical of everything you say or do, don’t give validity to their comments or suggestions. Dismiss them quickly.
2.    If the criticism is coming from someone that loves and genuinely cares about you, take note of their comments and suggestions and consider whether or not they are valid. If you disagree with the person, wait a day or so and then discuss it with them.
3.    If the criticism comes from an anonymous source, throw it in the garbage can.
4.    If the criticism steers you away from what God has led you to do, get away from it fast.
5.    Be very careful with criticism that begins with the statement, “God told me to tell you something…” or “I don’t necessarily feel this way, but a lot of people are saying…”
6.    Don’t take criticism personally. Incorporate it when it’s valid and helpful. Ignore it when it’s not. Your success does not depend on your critics but constructive criticism can very well give you a great boost.

Tuesday, September 13, 2011

Thank You

Hey folks,
As a result of utilities such as GoogleAnalytics.com, I have been able to track the effects and subscriber statistics of my blog over the past several months and years. In view of the participation and interest, I have decided to change my approach in the following ways:
1. I will publish a leadership article periodically for those of you that follow such posts. And I will endeavor to publish a new post at least monthly.
2. I will discontinue the "congregational" posts as they seem to garner the least amount of activity.
3. I will enable the comments section to allow you to publish your responses to my posts.
4. I hope we will - together - provide encouragement, advice, and biblical direction to the ministries and missions of MVC.
Thanks to all of you....
Kevin

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