If you’re a leader, criticism will be a part of your
life. It’s a fact, so expect it to happen. Some of it will be good. Some of it
will not be so good. Regardless, it’s best to be prepared and know how you’re
going to handle criticism. I try to do the following when I encounter
criticism.
1.
If the criticism is coming from someone that is
hypercritical of everything you say or do, don’t give validity to their
comments or suggestions. Dismiss them quickly.
2.
If the criticism is coming from someone that
loves and genuinely cares about you, take note of their comments and
suggestions and consider whether or not they are valid. If you disagree with
the person, wait a day or so and then discuss it with them.
3.
If the criticism comes from an anonymous source,
throw it in the garbage can.
4.
If the criticism steers you away from what God
has led you to do, get away from it fast.
5.
Be very careful with criticism that begins with
the statement, “God told me to tell you something…” or “I don’t necessarily
feel this way, but a lot of people are saying…”
6.
Don’t take criticism personally. Incorporate it
when it’s valid and helpful. Ignore it when it’s not. Your success does not
depend on your critics but constructive criticism can very well give you a
great boost.
