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Thursday, December 22, 2011

Some Thoughts About Aging


As I stand at the edge of 2012, I have a few new thoughts about life. January 7th, I turn 51 – an age I never would have believed I would reach when I was 21. Things change when we realize that we are more than ½ of a century old! Some of those things for me are:
1.    If I had known I was going to live this long, I would have taken better care of myself. Even though in my mind I think I can still do the things I did in my 20s and 30s, my body is quick to tell me something totally different.
2.    I realize that I am living in the last days of my life. But, that’s okay. I’m not depressed about it, just more aware of the preciousness of each day. And like one person said, “The game is won in the second half, not the first half”. It’s more important how you finish than how you begin.
3.    Some folks think that age equals righteousness. However, I have found that the longer I live, the more I realize how far away from God’s righteousness I truly am. And that awareness makes me more grateful for the grace of God in my life.
4.    I now value the input of others in my life more than ever before. At a younger age, I didn’t quite believe that I needed others. I felt as though I could do everything myself. Looking back on the numerous mistakes I have made – and they are many – I now realize the importance of the wisdom, advice, and guidance of others.
5.    I am much more appreciative of my wife. After 28 years of marriage, I realize that I have spent more time with her than any other person on the planet. Without her, I would be lost! She completes me and I am thankful to God for blessing me with such a wonderful soul mate.
6.    I think less about how much I want to get accomplished and more about how I can pour my life into younger people so that God can accomplish what He wants to do thru them.
7.    I value my church more than ever before. I can now see that God has surrounded me with people with whom I can truly experience life. Things haven’t always been all fun and roses – in fact, some years have been like hell! But thru it all, I am beginning to realize that the people of the family of faith were put in my life by God as part of His plan to shape and mold me according to His plan for me.
8.    I can see more clearly than ever before, that God doesn’t put us in any church so that we can get our religious entertainment. But rather that we find the part He wants us to play in reaching those who have no hope or relationship with Jesus Christ.
These are just a few thoughts. I’m sure there are many more things you could add. Lynn and I pray that you all have a blessed Christmas and a wonderful New Year! I’m excited about what God has in store for us in 2012!

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