How do you handle your critics?
In my capacity as pastor of MVC, I get criticized all the time – from church members, community members, and even other pastors. Sometimes it isn’t worth giving a second thought. But a good leader has a teachable spirit. He learns from criticism while not letting it deter his ministry.
Godly leaders don’t pretend to know it all. They accept constructive criticism, and try to learn from it. The Bible teaches in James 1:19, “My dear friends, you should be quick to listen and slow to speak or to get angry.” (CEV) When criticism comes, take James’ advice and listen. When you do, you’ll hold your temper and remain teachable.
How do you relate to a constructive suggestion? Do you get uptight or defensive?
Don’t consider the source; consider the suggestion.
Leaders don’t need to have all the answers. But many times, we should be concerned about leaders with all the answers. They are dangerous. The truth is, your biggest critics often help you out the most—unintentionally. They may mean to hurt you, but God can use that criticism to teach you and make you the kind of person He wants you to be.
Does that mean that you blindly accept all criticism? Of course not. Sometimes people are just mean. Ask God, “Is there something I can learn from this criticism?” But at the same time...
Never let a critic set your agenda. That’s God’s job. Never let a critic keep you from doing what God has called you to do.
Also, ask people you trust to help you evaluate your ministry. Put people around you who can give you their unvarnished perspective. People you can trust for honest input in your ministry are absolutely invaluable.
The Bible says in Proverbs 13:18: “If you ignore criticism, you will end in poverty and disgrace; if you accept correction, you will be honored.” (NLT) Criticism isn’t always negative. It can often prevent great failures. I once read a sign that said: “I'd rather change my mind and succeed than have my own way and fail.”
That sounds about right to me.
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