We all know that our teen years can be some of the toughest days of our lives. It is a time when temptation is strong. Peer pressure is a daily reality. The strain of school, sports and work can be challenging in many ways. That’s why it is so critical to keep your teenagers in church during this time in their lives. I realize that encouraging a teenager to stay in church and be involved in youth activities can be difficult. I’ve raised two teenagers. The urge for them to stay home is strong after spending a late night out with their friends. They would rather go out with their buddies rather than go to a youth group meeting. But if you will encourage your children to be involved in church when they are young, they’re more likely to make it a priority when they’re older.
As teens become more and more involved in church, especially in a youth group, they will form meaningful, supportive relationships with other Christians. These relationships are yet another thing that will keep them coming to church.
And the lessons they learn, coupled with positive parenting and good quality Christian friendships will help them with the temptations that they experience on a daily basis.
Another thing that our teens can do in church is to begin to serve. Learning to serve is another privilege as well as responsibility for us as Christians and is something that can help your teen to grow in their faith, grow as a person, and grow to be more and more committed.
One of the best ways you can encourage them to serve is to get involved yourself. As they see your positive example and are aware of the fact that you are involved you will be an encouragement and an example to them. And by your example, they will learn the blessings of staying committed and staying involved. I believe that church attendance is a critical ingredient in all of our lives as Christians and will prove to be truly beneficial as you go through the years of raising a teen. So get your kids involved. Bring them to youth group meetings and outings. Don’t let them build a foundational basis for their values based on the ways of our culture. Set their course on the solid rock – Jesus.
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